Invading own personal space

I had my pjs on when i had the boys so if there was anychance of b/f i would have just undone a few buttons.
As for the being sensitive with ppl touching your boobs - well I was.   absolutley hated all the handleing of my bits and Im sorry but i totally did not want to lose any dignity and totally cared about losing it. With the b/f feeding thing best to explain how you feel so the midwife can be intune with you. i realised i couldnt really do much about it but its ok not to be ok about it (if that makes sense!!).
As for giving birth - well I wasnt worried about the docs being where they should be but my big thing was anyone that came with me when I had the boys wasnt allowed below my belly button. And I can tell you even in the middle of contractions i made sure on one looked!! My friend even commented on how I made sure she didnt peek lol
And i have to tell you that now Im even worst when it comes to smears etc then b4 I had the boys. Before i handled them ok - now i keep putting them off. Bad I know
So much for not caring about all that once you have kids huh.

My midwife didnt do that to me.. she showed me how to hold Baileys head etc and told me to put my nipple onto his lips and when he opens his mouth put it in to the top of his mouth, because I wasnt putting it in properly she asked me if it was alright if she helped me, I said yes , but that was the only time she touched me and it was with my permission first!

Trish