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He was in SS think he was Wiremu, and he was in a McDs ad, when hes in the drive through and I dunno , realises its still breakfast menu or something.
Ha, he was also one of my patients , I gave him a filling (well, my boss did)

I have walked away , put Ty down in his cot and just shut his door, shut my door , counted to 100 , and gone back in , sometimes you need to have a few seconds to focus , the sound of a babies cry is hard to ignore, because it is meant to be , its their survival tool really .


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Yeah , was Wiremu .


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Originally posted by caitlynsmygirl caitlynsmygirl wrote:

Yeah , was Wiremu .


Yip your right, I just washed the dye out of my hair & it came to me, ha ha.

I too have a Ty he is 3 & boy he pushed my buttons today, screaming for no reason at school pick up time so everyone could see & hear, boy did I count to some ungodly number of course with a smile on my face....little angel
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I think its a great Ad!

Isabella has been SUCH an unsettled baby, she cry's all the time and it does my damn head in, and a few times I have HAD to let her cry because I felt like shaking her. Now I would NEVER shake her, but that feeling of anger washes over you and you really do feel like shaking them.

So what i do is, count to ten and take deeps breaths, then go back to her, letting her cry is not going to kill her, but shaking her can/will!

I think its a good message, its OK to let a baby cry if it means you have time to get your head together and calm down so you are better equip mentally to deal with it.

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I also think its a good ad.
We were talking about it at work. And they used to have those adverts on the TV all the time. Then there has been this big gap, and a whole generation has missed out on hearing this message. I think its important for people to realise its ok to walk away. If it only helps one person then it was worth it (Thats my opinion anyway)
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Originally posted by caitlynsmygirl caitlynsmygirl wrote:

He was in SS think he was Wiremu, and he was in a McDs ad, when hes in the drive through and I dunno , realises its still breakfast menu or something.


Ah yeah thanks! that's it - the McD's ad. I don't count Shorty because seriously who hasn't been on it?

OK I'll let you guys resume the acutal topic sorry

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and for the record he does pick bub up at the end.. i saw it again a couple of times last night and i like it..
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I think it's a great ad. It raises awareness about how you have to keep yourself and your baby safe when you are sleep-deprived and frustrated.

There were occasions that I felt like shaking Chloe (she was a colicky/refluxy baby) but I never did because I remembered those ads from when I was young, "never shake a baby"... the instinct of wanting to shake her wasn't one of violence either, it was purely that I wanted to stop her crying (not by hurting her, but you know how jiggling/doing something different etc. calms the baby, it was something along those lines but driven by frustration).

It's not "bad people" that are at risk of shaking a baby, just poorly informed ones at the height of frustration and sleep deprivation and at their wits end.

I, for one, am thankful for all those "never shake a baby" ads that were on tv when I was young.
Chloe (4 years) and Oliver (3 years).
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i Cant say that iv actually seen zed add??...but i too have had to walk away from the screaming to gather myself before i could calmly deal to it
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