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mellybelly 
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:30am |
Hi,
I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but felt i should tell what has happened.
I went to the specialist yesterday for a follow up & scan, as two weeks ago (i would have been 7 weeks then) we didn't see a lot on the ultra sound. since then i've had blood tests for HCG levels and the results are not good and an Ultrasound confirmed it. The pregnancy has not taken, we have a pregnancy sac but nothing is growing in there, we were at 9 weeks. 
I am going in on Wednesday for surgery to have it removed, rather than wait for it to miscarry in its own time.
My Husband and I are dealing with this, by staying positive as we now know we can get pregnant as it took nearly 2 years to get to here. The specialist has been great, saying she'll give us 3 months on our own, before looking into other options, which at this stage would be Clomid or similar.
I want to thank you all for your support and advice to date, and i won't become a stranger to the site, i'll still pop in and check on how everyone is doing.
Mel
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:35am |
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Aw Mel! I'm so sorry!
It's great that your specialist is so helpful
Make sure hubby gives you lots of hugs and good luck for the next few months.
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:37am |
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oh Im sorry to hear that. The same thing happened to us and I opted to have the d&c rather than wait. I think that helped bring a bit of closure rather than sitting waiting for it to happen naturally plus my cycle went back to normal almost straight away which meant we could try again quickly. good luck and I hope things go better next time (and Im sure there will be a next time)
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 2:16pm |
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I am really sorry to hear that... Look after each other and good luck for the next few months
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 2:22pm |
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I am so sorry to hear that. Take care of your self and all the best for future months
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 3:56pm |
Im so sorry to hear of your loss Mel 
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 3:58pm |
Im so sorry to hear about your loss mel If you do get put on clomid and want to talk to someone about it feel free to chat away to me i conceived on it with this bubba.
Please take care of yourself chicka
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 5:08pm |
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Mel. Please feel free to pop back in here whenever you want, and we do understand that you may not want to for a while.
Take care of yourself, and make sure your hubby gives you lots of loving attention! Good luck for the next few months.
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 7:21pm |
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss Mel. Take care of yourself and we'll all be thinking of you.
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 8:21pm |
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oh sweetie im so sorry for you and ur hubbys lose bug hugs
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Posted: 27 May 2006 at 9:18pm |
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Mel, Im so sorry for your loss..
Take Care..
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Posted: 28 May 2006 at 8:31am |
oh i'm so sorry hun! take care of yourself and i hope the next few months bring you some good news
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Posted: 28 May 2006 at 9:24am |
So sorry Mel.
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Posted: 28 May 2006 at 11:17am |
so sorry to hear your sad news. huge to you and hubby. thinking of you.
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Posted: 28 May 2006 at 11:29am |
Oh I'm so sorry to hear you sad news Mel!
Take care!
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Posted: 28 May 2006 at 1:50pm |
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Thank you all for your support and kind words. we are hanging in there with the obvious breakdowns every now and then.
will stay in touch when i can.
Mel
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Posted: 28 May 2006 at 3:24pm |
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I am sorry to hear this Mel, keep your chin up, and take care of yourself.
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Posted: 29 May 2006 at 9:45am |
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So sorry to hear about this - good luck for trying again, I am sure you will get there !
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Posted: 29 May 2006 at 10:26am |
Oh Mel...I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of each other and do keep in touch.
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Posted: 29 May 2006 at 10:32am |
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Im so sorry to hear of your loss. Take care and good luck for next time.
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Not good news i’m afraid
