Totally at my wits end ....AGAIN!!!!!!

I haven't read all the responses either so sorry if this has already been said.

First he won't starve himself, so if you have offered him a variety of foods and he doesn't eat it then hes probably not hungry. You say hes quite big well then hes obviously getting enough somewhere so try not to stress (I know easier said than done).

What I do in the mornings is make a lunch box for Jack and put it on his table and leave it there all day for him to snack on. Some days he only eats the fruit, some days only the cheese but as a whole he seems to eat pretty well. At dinner time he gets his dished up with the rest of us, if he doesn't eat it I offer him yoghurt or fruit, if he turns that down then he gets nothing else.

A study was actually done on an orphanage in India or somewhere and they put a whole heap of different foods out at every meal and they actually discovered the kids would eat a perfectly balanced diet. Forcing kids to eat things they don't want to actually masks this natural ability and making them eat more than they want will make them unaware of when they are actually full.