What do you argue about?

We don't normally argue that much...more just bicker over silly little things...normally when he has said something in a totally guy way that comes out completely wrong and in a way that offends us females!

We are such geeks- our main arguments are about politics, philosophy, society and race DH was raised by very conservative, uneducated close minded people where as my parents are both very educated and liberal thinking so we have some very heated debates! I LOVE it I don't think of myself as an argumentative person but I find it so stimulating arguing these kind of things with him.

Our proper, real life arguments were always about money- since we've been over here its not an issue anymore so life is pretty peachy We disagree about little things but our arguments are few and far between- when we do have them its usually about his family or me not getting my own way about something.

Housework and money mostly. Money arguements are getting fewer and fewer but division and completion of household tasks is causing a few problems atm.

money here, he thinks because he works for the money he should get most of it. I only ask for money to buy the kids stuff never for myself while he has a $10k car sitting in the garage that he is always buying bits for, its wheels are worth more than my whole car but he thinks he deserves it because he works.

All sorts. The sorts of things that we 'find' to argue about change all the time though. We've argued about dishes, washing, money, cars, jobs, all sorts....... I think because we've argued about, learnt from it, come to a happy median and moved on.
DH was a single person for a long time and I'm a worse case scenario Taurus!!
Arguing is healthy in my opinion as you're challenging each other but also learning from each other. I think when you have an argument over something with someone you should be learning just as much about them as you are about yourself. We always argue with a respect for each other if that makes sense??
When I'm grumpy and tired I always warn DH and vice versa by simply saying I'm tired and grumpy so you have to love me lots tonight. That way we don't bring up anything 'challenging' like mowing lawns, doing dishes or anything that could be taken as criticism when you're already feeling grouchy.

Yeah Aprilfools, I agree that arguing can be healthy.  So long as you can fight fair and there's an end to the argument, it can turn out to be a good thing!  We argue about renovations (yes, I can sense some of you rolling your eyes!) and also about DH charity-working on so many other people's houses instead of ours... and I'm not saying that I'm always right in these arguments either.  We see money issues differently, and did right from the start, so every now and then something will pop up about that and we'll have a doozy.  But something I really appreciate about DH is that if an issue needs to be worked through he'll usually go there rather than brush it under the carpet and hope for the best.  We're fiesty, but that works for us. 

Not much, have argued about money in the past when things have been tight, but normally is just stupid things like whose turn it is to make the tea...

[QUOTE=Maya]Ah yes Andie, the feisty redheads - just wait till Ella gets older!

Oh, Lordy... that is so true! 

And I'm loving the potato salad move BTW!  He he he