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I always go by the rule 'If I say something and it can be taken in 1 or 2 ways, and one of those ways makes you angry or upset, I meant the other one'.

And yeah try not to get personal, thats what PMs are for.

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I generally try to avoid posting things I feel really strongly about because you get jumped on so fast its just not worth it. The only thing that annoys me is when people will give it but can't take it.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Two Blondinis Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 September 2007 at 1:03pm
Originally posted by fleury fleury wrote:

I always go by the rule 'If I say something and it can be taken in 1 or 2 ways, and one of those ways makes you angry or upset, I meant the other one'.


I like it! Very good rule to live by on forums

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Maya Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 September 2007 at 1:55pm
Originally posted by nzpiper nzpiper wrote:

Originally posted by Maya Maya wrote:

LOL Robyn we've all been having fierce debates over domestic violence and circumcision But it hasn't gotten nasty, at least not IMO...


And here I was thinking Simsam was objecting to the "conversion" that is going on in the cloth nappy forum I need to get out more and read more forums


Teehee, there's nothing wrong with nappy chat, it's a very interesting subject
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I always think about who I am responding to before I post, if it's someone I know well or who I know will pick up on my sarcasm/cheekiness then I'll post it (ie. with Toni and the circumcision thing ) but if I think they'll take it too personally or won't see the funny side I tend to hold back.
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I tend to be the same.. there are plenty (actually lately, a heck of alot) of things or ideas that make me think or or or "wow that person's a bit " or just plain

I have learnt that it gets nasty very quicly, and there are some things and yes, as simsam says, everyone has their opinions, and while no-one means to push them, it takes one person to insult the idea of someone elses opinion for it to turn into a kind of "well i think this" "well i think that" "well, if you think THAT then you're wrong"    Not often, but i have noticed it a bit more lately.

I do like Fleurs quote above.

I tend to usually read the first post and a few replies and mostly just think "ooooh, I'm not even going to justify joining this at all" I don't even go back and read it, I don't need to see everyone clambering with opinions to see who comes out on top.
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