Being a dad in the 21st century
First time father and educator, Logan Donnelly shares his perspective on what it's like being a dad in the 21st …
Becoming a father is one of the most exciting things that will happen in your life. All of a sudden you are responsible for the beginning of a new person.
First time father and educator, Logan Donnelly shares his perspective on what it's like being a dad in the 21st …
Oliver Driver recently welcomed his little girl to the world, leaving him deeply moved by the process of birth and the women …
Many dads spend the whole of their partners' pregnancies feeling dazed, confused, and a bit left out. After all, they're not the ones whose bodies are going through major changes; feeling a baby grow and move inside of them; having to watch what …
It's true, your baby really is one of a kind. But what makes them the way they are? Sam Cummins discusses the good, the bad, and the uncle Gary. Mazel Tov, and wow, look – it’s Mendel’s peas made real! Like sourdough and gut health, the subject …
Being the first of your friends to have a baby definitely has its perks – they just don't involve boys' surf trips to Bali, discovers Sam Cummins. You may be aware of the saying “The first will be last, and the last will be first.” It was …
When it comes to buying presents for the kids, Sam Cummins recommends the 'buy now, pay later' philosophy. It seems the older I get, the more I understand one of the world’s more immutable truths; that every decision I make is a trade-off …
What happens when you can’t bring home the bacon? Sam Cummins examines the role of the provider. There’s a wide range of concerns facing today’s new dads and – spoiler alert – there’s a whole other raft of new indignities once baby arrives too. …
Colin Gruetzmacher’s honest reflections on the thrills and spills that are part of becoming a father. So you’re gonna be a dad! Weird, right? I still remember feeling excited at the news, but also wondering “Who thought I was responsible enough to …
Dad Matters columnist Sam Cummins sings the praises of sons. Be proud of your boy! I’ve got three brothers, three sons and four nephews, no daughters and four nieces. It’s a regular blush of boys in my world. Tell people you’re having a baby boy …
Colin Gruetzmacher frets about how best to bond with his son. There is something really special about dads sharing their hobbies with their kids. This is probably true for many mums as well, but it seems like every new dad I’ve spoken to is so …
Colin Gruetzmacher awaits the imminent arrival of his third child, and realises his presence is the best gift he can offer his family. Three-and-a-half weeks! As of writing this article, that’s how many weeks we are away from Baby Number Three’s …
Congratulations, you're pregnant! Well, your partner is, anyway — but it can certainly feel as if you're the pregnant one, especially in terms of your suddenly massive feelings of responsibility toward your partner and child. Becoming a dad is not …
Becoming a parent is one of the most life-changing experiences you and your partner will go through together. In the haze of sleep deprivation and getting to know your new baby, you might find you have less time to talk than you'd like -- and you …
Finding out your partner is pregnant is the beginning of a new journey for both of you. Dr Anil Sharma offers his advice on life as a dad-to-be. For the first-time dad, pregnancy can be a physical and emotional rollercoaster - different in …
While Sam Cummins tallies up his parenting misdemeanours, he finds encouragement in the wins – simply taking his kids outside may have set them up for life! Wait – you don’t implement Brené Brown’s 11 steps to remove shame from your interpersonal …
Skateparks - concrete wonderland or urban hazard best avoided? Dad Matters columnist Sam Cummins explains his survival strategy. There are few topics in child rearing I'm qualified to provide advice on. In fact, I can't really think of any. I …
When you’ve been in a hard place, it can be difficult to bounce back to happy. Colin Gruetzmacher shares how kids are often one step ahead. They always tell you kids grow up quickly but they don’t tell you that you have to keep up. Like most …
Getting fathers to bond early with baby is not just good for little one — he will take on a whole new appeal for Mum, writes Miriam McCaleb. Why is it that I feel goopy on the inside when I hear my husband reading Mr Brown Can Moo, Can You? to our …
Miriam McCaleb pens an open letter to dads who wish they could spend more time with their children. To whom it may concern,Ngā mihi ki a koe, May I begin by saying what a treat it is to hear from you. Too many of the dads who get in touch …
Judging on appearance is pretty un-PC, so how come redheads get so much time in the stand-up comedy spotlight? Dad Matters columnist Sam Cummins takes up the cause. Truisms are a funny thing. They’re meant to be a folksy inspiring way of imparting …
The Olympic Games can stir up the competitive streak in us all, especially where our parenting is concerned, reflects Dad Matters columnist Sam Cummins. Who doesn't love the Olympics? Stadiums, medals and Katy Perry. You get to be patriotic …
Falling in love can happen instantly, it might just take you a while to realise. Patrick O'Malley pens a love letter to his daughter. 1,784,145 minutes. 29,735 hours. 1,238 days. 177 weeks. 88 fortnights. 40 months. 3 years. This is how long I …
Four days, four weeks, four months? What is an appropriate 'stand-down' period after a new baby arrives? 'Dad matters' columnist Sam Cummins looks at expectations and reality. There must be a way to talk to about sex that doesn’t make you sound …
Being a stay-at-home dad is a noble occupation, but one that takes a bit of explaining in certain social contexts. OHbaby! 'dad matters' columnist Richard Drake explains his job description and skill set. I was sitting in a room full of people, …
Parenthood often means a change in vehicle - farewell performance car, hello practicality. While for some, this is no big deal - for others it can be quite an emotional journey, as 'dad matters' columnist Sam Cummins explains. The Oxford …
Brand new dad Sean Falconer kept a diary to record the reality of his first week of fatherhood. …
In celebration of Fathers Day we wanted to tell you about Max Schireson. Max was the CEO of the successful software company MongoDB, it was a demanding job but one that he was good at and that he loved, he would regaurly commute from California to …
The Power of Perception Training up a child in the way he/she should go doesn't mean ignoring their natural gifts. Take time to understand and perceive your child's ways, so that you may guide them to be who they are meant to be. by John …
Have you ever thought about what makes a firefighter a hero? Marie McKinney Oates, Marriage Expert explains how. There’s a house that’s on fire. Everyone runs out. Because that’s what people do when they want to survive. People run away from the …
Hadyn Jones compares notes with another stay-at-home dad and finds it may be the best thing they've ever done. Statistics New Zealand has no record of us but we're out there. We're stay-at-homers - men who park their careers to look after the kids. …
Hubby At Home blogger Dan shares tips for managing his toughest career path yet - Stay At Home Dad Well before our first son BX was born, Aims and I made the decision that I would be a full-time Macho Man (Man and Children Hanging Out) or stay at …
For all the Dads in the house... …
Our men have to pack up their pride, pennies and putters for another day, writes dad of two Hadyn Jones in his seven steps to fatherhood. Parenthood runs by its own clock. Babies are conceived in an instant and often arrive in a rush nine months …
Postnatal depression (PND) is a condition that many women struggle with after the birth of a child. But surprising research suggests that up to 24% of men may be afflicted with PND, and that there is a strong correlation between PND in new mums and …
You should feel perfectly free to express your feelings and thoughts. Don't keep them bottled up. Let your partner know you are interested by asking questions and telling her about how you feel. After all, it's your baby too! Some of the ways you …
When a baby is born, a father is born. To celebrate the special role men play, here's fatherhood, in their own words. …